Forgive is the oil of Forgiving and Renewing. Forgiving is “giving” FOR ourselves, a chance to start anew. Throughout childhood, most people are conditioned to expect punishment whenever they make mistakes. The punishments range from gentle rebukes to being shamed or even physical abuse. Thus, as adults, we automatically self-punish or blame ourselves (mostly on a subconscious level) when things don’t go right or when we make mistakes.
The good news is that we can recondition ourselves. We can create for ourselves a safe environment free of unnecessary punishment as we progress, make mistakes, and try new things. In fact, we can reward ourselves with love and encouragement for simply authentically trying. We will be much happier and relaxed when we forgive ourselves quickly and move on. In fact, we make it safer for others to be around us when we truly can forgive and be tolerant of ourselves.
Physical Manifestation: anxious feelings, liver support, skin support, addictions and irritability, circulation, environmental threats, hair loss, prostate issues, and libido.
Negative Emotions: unforgiving, critical, judgmental, self-judgement, unstable, offended, cynical, annoyed, bitter, blaming, angry, defeated, negative family patterns, disconnected, stuck, paralyzed by fearful past, limited thinking, emotional blocks, unlovable, comparison, discouraged, impatient, stressed, spiritual and emotional toxicity, and fear of unknown.
Possible Negative Beliefs and Thoughts to Release:
• I forgive, I am condoning the bad actions of others.
• People are defined by their bad behavior. What they do, makes them who they are.
• I get so mad at myself that I beat myself up.
Positive Emotions: forgiving, self-acceptance, light, free, kind, resilient, loving, self-confidence, understanding, tolerant, empathetic, bright, safe, self-awareness, confidence, lovable, good enough, firm, balanced, reliable, stable, resolved, courage, victor, empowered, and power.
New Enlightened Beliefs and Thoughts to Adopt:
• There is a difference between who someone is and their actions.
• I can forgive others and protect me and my loved ones from harm.
• We are all children of God, trying to do our best in the world.
Affirmations (Enlightened Declarations):
♥ fully forgive myself and others for being human.
♥ I allow myself and others the freedom to make mistakes.
♥ I know God will take care of it all.
Actions: Apply it over the heart for emotional support. For physical health issues, apply topically on or near location. Apply on the feet for systemic support. Inhale from cupped hands and use in diffuser.
⚠︎Attention: This oil is not labeled for internal consumption.